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(Posted by: Kevin on 2007-08-17 05:20:48)

I posted a question earlier, but i still need advice. I finally had enough and told her if she did not tell me her true feelings then we couldn't be friends anymore. She said "I like you alot, you're a great guy ". When i asked her to elaborate, she said that she just liked me as a friend. But I can't help but feel that she's maybe denying it for different reasons. But my friends think I'm the one in denial. Months ago, she did tell me that she didn't have any feelings for me. But a month later, when my friend interrogated her about me, she seemed sad and felt that she was pressuring me, what about I have no idea. Basically, because of her responses, my friend was convinced she did like me and when i was whining to her said "the problem is u think she doesnt like u, but she does but isnt ready to say so! " I have no idea if I'm in denial or maybe she is. It's been since Sept since we broke up, shouldn't she be ready by now? I know though she can't stand being in an LDR. What do i do? Well, I should add that we met on an online game called maple story. And that since than, I've started another online relationship about 2 months ago with the friend who interrogated her. They have known each other for months but are merely acquaintances. They are both on my buddy list so each can hear what i say. When I talk to my gf, the girl i really like doesn't say anything but sometimes when we get affectionate, she logs off. And she had quit MS previously due to her starting college this fall and that she promised her mom not to play anymore and that it was pissing off her friends that she played all day. I kept begging her to come back but she said she would have to think about it. Well, the next day, she imed me and said she had a surprise and to go on maple. She had created a new character. When I asked her why, she replied "maple is fun ".

Posted by: joey c on 2007-08-25, 02:23:51

Kevin, Personally, I think you should just leave this girl alone. You had a friend interrogate her? Are you serious? What were you thinking, that is totally unacceptable.Stay with the new girl, at least she is interested in you. I would venture to say, that if you broke up LAST September, 10 months ago, your ex is not coming back. Move on and let your ex do the same.

Posted by: yaboysupadave on 2007-08-17, 05:24:39

If she wanted more she would react to your feelings with the same let her go bro

Posted by: Pro90 on 2007-08-17, 05:25:13

She got problems.........go on.........

Posted by: lindseyinlove on 2007-08-17, 05:27:19

It sounds to me like she still has feelings for you, but doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. Why did you guys break up? Think about all the things she asked you to change about the relationship or yourself. She probably hasn't seen a change yet to make her want to retry the relationship.

Posted by: David Tan on 2007-08-17, 05:29:28

I think your in denial cause if she liked you wont said have yes, when u asked her, she probably just wants to be friends. But if shes in denial why would she be holding back for ??