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What do I Do i have relationship problems please help !!!?
ok so i am going out with this guy and this is our 3rd time going out, and i love his family alot and they love me, but now that i have been going out with him i dnt feel the love with him anymore. and i met someone while i was on vaction but nothing happened. when i got back my boyfriend started a fight about how i dont care and how he feels that we are just friends and stuff. and now i dont know what to do because he is like madly in love with me and stuff its just a little too much for me. i mean what the hell do i do? we just got back together on dec 3rd. and now he is like oh lets forget the fight and stuff like that . any help ????
Freshman-senior relationship problems!?
ok im a freshman in high school and in novemeber i started dating a really great senior. He's very involved in school activities, popular, and is one of my student teachers. We started talking after a school function and he asked me out on a date. It went great, nothing was awkward and we talked like we knew eachother forever. We went on 3 more dates then he asked me out. Everything was fine until a week later he broke up with me and it was very painful, since he was the first guy i really had deep feelings for. The day after he came over my house to make me feel better and we talked for hours and decided to be in each other's lives and we even kissed again. Now we talk often and hang out but we act like we're in a relationship, doing all the things we did when we were. I like him so much and im sure he has deep feelings for me too. He explained everything to me and said that there was a possiblity that we might get back together but im not sure it's going to happen. Rushing him into a relationship was my mistake before, but we've gotten to know each other longer this time and I really want a second chance but im not sure of whats holding him back. And i dont want to rush him, but I dont know what to do. I'm very happy he still chooses to be with me even though we're not in a real relationship. He's everything i want in a guy, and we really have something special together. please give me advice
New baby and relationship problems...help?
Ive been with my g f on and off for 3 years now. six months in she cheated on me. I forgave her. things were alright until she cheated again behind my back for months and got pregnant. She hide it as long as she could, came out with it and decided to keep the baby, so we went 9 months of not knowing who it belonged to. Now I know through DNA testing he's mine.Ive done my best to forget what has happened in the past and just make things right for our son. but things just arnt the way I wished they'd be. All her friends basically hate me and I hate them for hiding what she did behind my back over and over so we never go out together she just goes out alone, and it pisses me off cause I know she gets hit on. just last night new years she was to busy hanging out with others to wanna spend time with me only showing up a moment before midnight. I know shes a horrible liar I catch her constantly , I know she's cheated before and probley still does she's secretive always erasing numbers on her phone including setting the ringer to vibrate. I hate to be paranoid but when all the symptoms scream im screwing around you have no choice to wonder.She always talks in terms of " what if something bad happens" like for example she doesn't want me to claim our son on taxes now because " if something happened between us she would never see the money" when I'm only looking at being with her and would never dream of splitting up because of our son.with every passing day I feel more as a stranger. she swears she loves me, but sex isn't even the way it used to be. which just makes me wonder even more.I just wish the best for my son whether I'm happy or not. I know how the court system works and I'd never get him because I'm the male. I'll get stuck with child support. and never see my kid while she dates someone new while I pay their way. don't get me wrong I want to pay everything for him but child support is always so much more then necessary and Id rather be taking care of him myself I've already seen my dad go through this, and I'm sure its only a matter of time especially since Ive just got the feeling things will never work out between us. for example she tells me shes irritated with me and that I don't help out enough when I buy everything, and do anything she asks . and every time its something with " me" its always her messing around trying to make me feel down. I just don't know what to do and have noone to talk to about this. I'm ready to just give up and be alone and tell her to leave me alone and just file for child support so I can find someone who I'll be happy with in time in all honestly I never wanted a child with her and I know she didn't either and knew last year when she cheated the second time I wanted someone new but couldn't and kept things neutral with her until I knew if the baby was mine.... helpWe are not married, We do not live together, or stay with each other frequently at my house.She is a fit mother, she doesn't do drugs, just goes out drinking alot. and does not abuse the child, he is less than 2 months old. and due to the cheating, and not knowing who the baby belonged to he doesn't have my last name, and she's in a way making excuses to letting me sign it. btw the DNA testing shows its not the other guys, me and the kid have taking a test to see if hes mine for sure, but he looks so much like me its undeniableWe are not married, We do not live together, but we stay with each other frequently at my house.She is a fit mother, she doesn't do drugs, just goes out drinking alot. and does not abuse the child, he is less than 2 months old. and due to the cheating, and not knowing who the baby belonged to he doesn't have my last name, and she's in a way making excuses to letting me sign it. btw the DNA testing shows its not the other guys, me and the kid have not taken a test to see if hes mine for sure, but he looks so much like me its undeniable
Young relationship problems: Help?
Hello. Me and my ex like eachother alot, and for like a year now. Im 14 shes 13. But her parents wont let her date untill 16. What should i do? ThanksAnd neither of us lie.Any one?
My new long distance relationship is having problems! HELP! please?
Im in a really new long distance relationship. We met in a very strange way, but are crazy about each other...or so I thought. We went from things being amazing and talking all the time to I cant get him to even answer my calls or text now. What should I do?I mean if space is what he needs why cant he just tell me? Before we were official he was engaged to this girl and she left him for someone else. He told me he was scared and we talked about it for awhile but I left it at that. A few nights later he asked me to be his girlfriend.I just dont get it?
Do I have commitment problems with my girlfriend because of past relationships?
Recently I got into an argument with my girlfriend about something I can't remember but ultimately she blurted out " Go ahead and give up it's all your good for" then quickly apologized. This wouldn't be a big deal quite frankly but it's something I had heard a lot as a child growing up from my dad. My dad really wasn't much of a father as a drunk I had to live with. I went through a phase where I was cutting and it turned into suicidal thoughts after trying to impress a girl after she showed me to someone with cut marks up and down his arms. After this I met someone else who manipulated me and long story short she had a miscarriage then went off and told my girlfriend before we really started talking how I was just a user. Which honestly isn't the problem, I think I got way too caught up in relationships before but now I don't want to trust anyone because of my father, and past relationships... is this really the reason? I told my girlfriend now that since a lot of stuff I never talked about and didn't want anyone else to know in telling her those things that it kinda brought back everything that I was ignoring before. Today we were talking and a family member walked in and she told me not to say anything relating to I love you... ironic because we had just been talking about marriage and kids.... am I the one to blame here? And how can I fix it? Thanks so much really means a lot.
Some problems in a relationship.. only need a teenage girls help really..?
hey i have a problem i dunno what to do.. with my gf... here is 2 examplesBtw these are in a chat we go to after school and stuff" whats his name glomps martyr " Her username has Martyrdom in it so yehand the definition for " glomp" is v, to glompNOT sexual, it is the action of one person lovingly and dramatically attacking another with a hug.A glomp is often preadatory and lies somewhere in the grey area between a caring embrace, and a flying leap to tackle someone. so of course i felt uncomfortable and with him saying that so i left of course and went to my chat on xat... where we could still of course talk through pc.and she got upset by it somehow and i dont know why really... P.S. this happened tonightand here is my second example..a chat with me and her Ex Bf after she left my chat...This was about a week earliermy gf " bye everyone ttyl" about 30 seconds after she leavesher ex " 1 4 3 " me " uhh wth?" her ex " it means i love you" me " uh..." her ex " dont worry, it's not like i am ever gonna be able to say that to her again" me " ok........" 2 minutes later her ex " if thats gonna make you upset then your not ready for this world kid" me " ohh go away" note i didnt really say go away, i used more uhh lets say violent words then we got into a fight and she signed in, and she saw, and i got in trouble...ok now this is where i come to what i really need to say...What am i seroiusly ment to do in these situations???He was calling me a kid, because i am 13 and he is 15, and my gf is 14 they always are older than me o..O Hey any teenage girls, plz help me here... Pleasethey thanks girlz you really raised my spirits i guess.. and i think i know what i will do..
I have problems getting into a relationship. Any advice?
I have problems getting into a relationship. Im usually shy around girls so to get a bit more friendly i try and get to know them better. Every time I do this though they start considering me more as a friend than a person they'd like to date. I'm just really unlucky and could really use any advice I do ask the girl out eventually but by then she wants to stay friends.
How to handle problems in serious relationships ?
Whenever me and my girlfriend argue, no matter who's fault it is, I always ignore her for a while until everything is calmed down. But I know it kills my girlfriend inside but I really don't like talking about the issues face to face, usually the way we resolve it is say sorry like 5 hours later or something.I feel like this is the worst way to deal with problems, so is it better if I just sit and talk with my girlfriend even though I hate it and hold back my anger for a bit until the issue is resolved? Is this the better way? How did you deal with your problems ?
Question about problems in a relationship?
I have a friend who I play games with, you know on the ps4, call of duty, and what not. But his girl friend doesn't like it, and they often fight about it. It gets to the point where my friend doesnt care, and doesnt wanna deal with her. Is he being wrong for playing?, or is she being the problem?
Someone to discuss my relationship/friendship problems with?
Is there anywhere I could discuss my problems in real time online. Didn't get on too well with befriender support lines & counsellors.Don't seem to have a trusty mate or relative. Topics for discussion include ppl I like, or who like me, what to do next. Tougher issues include dealing with ill relatives with emotional problems.I have had some useful ideas off people using answers in the past. PS Happy new year everyone
Relationship problems. Do you have advice?
My partner and I have been together for 4 years. We have bought a house together, have respective kids and we have built a decent life. We are having relationship problems.1. We aren't able to spend enough time together. We can't do a lot to fix this because the kids always come first and we knew it would be that way. I now have to live an hour away so that my kids can go to a particular school. She stayed in the home we bought because her kid needed to stay and not have any changes.2. The time we have together we don't enjoy because of much of the stress that our kids put us through. She is always stressed, sad and slightly paranoid. She tries to read between the lines to much and adds to the stress.We are 38 me and 47 her and immaturity is not the problem. These are real problems that I don't know how to solve. I am to close to the situation to see a way out.Any ideas?My dtrs had been living with my ex and going to the same school their whole lives. Drama divorce, abuse took place at the ex's house and they wanted to live with me. The youngest is in 10th grade. Oldest is going to community college on a complete presidential scholarship, 100 % paid. So I moved to provide them a safe home close to their schools.My partner and I had bought the house an hour away. We both work in this town and now I drive an hour to work every day. The market has nose dived and we can't sell. Her youngest 9 y o adopted and the ex that she shares custody with are not willing to move. Her oldest 28 is a college grad and an alcoholic. I also have a 20y o son in the Marines during war time.That is the stress I was talking about when I say that our kids cause us much stress.
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